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Accismus is
a feigned refusal of something earnestly desired. Means a person would pretend
not to like what she/he really desire. Many things cause this symptom, mostly
because the person who caught with accismus was shy to admit it what she/he desire.
Probably to avoid any critics or probably bullying.
In romance, a person who ail with
accismus tend not so confident with themselves. They afraid if there will be a
rejection. But in this post I would like to change the perspective, what if ‘’accismus’’
people is not pretend to hide their
desire rather they just playing hard to
get.
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So goes the saying, at least. While you
probably think you afraid to show your feeling to someone you like, Just keep
in mind that you are "playing" with somebody's emotions. And the good
news is have something to share how to
play hard to get. Let’s see!
Avoid being or appearing to be needy
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Being desperate or clingy is the COMPLETE opposite of playing hard to get. As ‘’accismus’’ person you are blessed
to hide your desire. So this tips would be easy for you. You just have to let
things develop at a pace based on someone else's interest rather than on
yours.
Enjoying
your singledom.
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That's
right. You have to own being a single person while
letting the other person see you in action. Being single is fun: you can meet a
lot of new people, have a blast with your girlfriends/boyfriends, and go out
without knowing what the night has in store for you. If others see you having
fun living the single life, they'll want to be a part of your life even more.
Don't
make yourself too easily accessible.
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If
he or she calls you, don't answer all the time, and wait a day or two before
calling back. A good rule of thumb is to wait about twice as long as they do
before calling back.
Maintain your independence.
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You will
definitely need to adjust your schedule to make room for any serious love
interest, but you should keep pursuing your interests, hanging out with your friends,
working out, or doing whatever it is you loved to do before you met the other
person.
Find
a balance between playing hard to get and being open to love.
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In the end, you'll have to open up and be
more available if you're ready for long-lasting love. But if you're not ready
and want to keep having fun, then play on.
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